COMMON WAYS TO DISTRACT YOURSELF

When something occurs in our life that shakes us to the core and forms those tight knots in our stomach, it is important that we do things that can help take our minds off of whatever is causing us stress. Some examples include:

  • Listening to music
  • Going for a walk
  • Hanging with a pet
  • Watching TV
  • Going on Instagram/Tik Tok/Snapchat/Facebook/Youtube
  • Reading a book
  • Taking a bath
  • Meditation
  • Cooking/Baking
  • Retail Therapy/Online Shopping (sorry mom!)
  • Exercise (my favorite)
  • FaceTiming a friend
  • Going out to eat with a friend
  • Other____________

Whatever it is that you like to do, do it. Some of you are like “duh,” but when we partake in actions that make us happy, we are essentially taking away some of the discomforts. 

Example: The other day was really rough for me. I did not do as well on a math test as I thought I did, and I burst into tears. I made silly mistakes, therefore I was really mad at myself because math is one of my best subjects and I knew what I was doing. As I was talking to my therapist, I realized that I am also angry at what my life has become and all that I am forced to go through. It is not fair. I should not have to grow up without my father. I should not have to go to a holiday service and be the only kid, aside from my sister, who lost a parent. I would never wish my pain on anyone, but it also is not easy to walk the path that so many people are forced to walk along. After crying for many hours, my mom asked if I wanted to go to the mall with her since she had to get her phone fixed. I wiped my tears, threw on my Birkenstocks, and said yes. Retail therapy helped me calm down and get out of my own head for a little bit. I had the best time in Sephora looking at some of the makeup that my favorite YouTubers constantly rave about. Not gonna lie, it was kind of intimidating because everywhere I looked, I thought to myself, “oh my god, I know that brand and that product, I must get it. No, wait, that foundation is better for my skin.” I also looked at designer bags and tried on too tall high heels that squished my fat feet. The point is, I found a way to distract myself and hold onto whatever bit of happiness I had inside me.

2 thoughts on “COMMON WAYS TO DISTRACT YOURSELF

  1. You a truly a special gift!! I love you to the moon and back!!! You mean more to me than I can explain!! You are going to get so far in life and help so many people!! Continue to amaze me!! I am so grateful to have you as my sister!! Love you!!

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  2. Dylan, thank you for your brave and inspirational blog. I lost my mom at 12 and I can sadly identify with you about being the only kid in the room who has lost a parent at a young age. I am always here for you and your sister if you want to talk. It’s not always easy to be in this club. But you are right, We Got This! Thanks for making me feel better! You are surrounded by so much love! What an amazing family you have. Continue to partake in the things that make you happy and I can guarantee you that your blog will touch many. Much love and light! xo Kim

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